We need your help to share your personal experiences with an adult boy who is curious about having a Daddy/boy relationship. After you read his questions below, what advice would you give? I've already conveyed that we're not licensed professionals, and he should seek out a complete understanding of himself as an adult first, but I also offered that any of you who might want to weigh in, also weigh in.
Please comment below or email us directly at aok4otk@aol.com.
"I've read your blog for a while and stuff and I was really interested in the boy/Daddy dynamic or a Domestic Discipline situation. I just feel very conflicted about it, and I guess [my question is]: What is normal and What isn't?"
I've never done anything like this before as I'm only 18 and stuff, and I genuinely have no idea how any of this is supposed to work. It's kind of been really difficult lately trying to sort myself out."
Here's a little advance advice from a regular reader, boy matt, who has been on his own adult boy journey this summer. Here's his approach:
boy matt: My response to that would be to do research first. One thing I didn’t do was search the Internet first. Reading Cornertime Confidential is a great start. I would suggest finding forums and websites (like SpankThisHookups.com ) where you can chat with specific people who are into it and are experienced. Ask questions because that’s the only way you’ll learn. I had no idea what I was looking for. I’m still figuring it out. At 18 I wouldn’t worry about knowing that but exploring different things is both normal and good for you. If it turns you on, or it’s something you feel you need, or you’re just interested, reach out to as many people as possible and explore when you’re comfortable and when it’s safe to do so.
CTC: Did you just throw your caution to the wind? Did you tell friends where you were going first? Did you know the person first? Any advice on that?
boy matt: I didn’t do any of that on the first Spanking date. But I would suggest asking 100x certain questions to make sure you’re on the same page, letting someone you trust know where you are and meeting once in a semi-public place before allowing them to Spank you. Look for red flags. If they don’t want to meet first, that’s a red flag. If they don’t listen to what you want and try to force what they want, that’s another. Always trust your gut.
We want to encourage all CTC readers to follow boy matt's journey this year. He's been frank and honest and exciting and more! He can be found here.
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Cornertime most highly recommends all boys and Daddys with questions to set up accounts on hotbottoms.net where you can talk, discuss, and explore without the pressure of hooking up. You can learn LOADS of information and other boys or Daddy's perspectives.
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We need your help to share your personal experiences with an adult boy who is curious about having a Daddy/boy relationship. After you read his questions below, what advice would you give? I've already conveyed that we're not licensed professionals, and he should seek out a complete understanding of himself as an adult first, but I also offered that any of you who might want to weigh in, also weigh in.
Please comment below or email us directly at aok4otk@aol.com.
I've never done anything like this before as I'm only 18 and stuff, and I genuinely have no idea how any of this is supposed to work. It's kind of been really difficult lately trying to sort myself out."
Here's a little advance advice from a regular reader, boy matt, who has been on his own adult boy journey this summer. Here's his approach:
boy matt: My response to that would be to do research first. One thing I didn’t do was search the Internet first. Reading Cornertime Confidential is a great start. I would suggest finding forums and websites (like SpankThisHookups.com ) where you can chat with specific people who are into it and are experienced. Ask questions because that’s the only way you’ll learn. I had no idea what I was looking for. I’m still figuring it out. At 18 I wouldn’t worry about knowing that but exploring different things is both normal and good for you. If it turns you on, or it’s something you feel you need, or you’re just interested, reach out to as many people as possible and explore when you’re comfortable and when it’s safe to do so.
CTC: Did you just throw your caution to the wind? Did you tell friends where you were going first? Did you know the person first? Any advice on that?
boy matt: I didn’t do any of that on the first Spanking date. But I would suggest asking 100x certain questions to make sure you’re on the same page, letting someone you trust know where you are and meeting once in a semi-public place before allowing them to Spank you. Look for red flags. If they don’t want to meet first, that’s a red flag. If they don’t listen to what you want and try to force what they want, that’s another. Always trust your gut.
We want to encourage all CTC readers to follow boy matt's journey this year. He's been frank and honest and exciting and more! He can be found here.
________________________________________
Cornertime most highly recommends all boys and Daddys with questions to set up accounts on hotbottoms.net where you can talk, discuss, and explore without the pressure of hooking up. You can learn LOADS of information and other boys or Daddy's perspectives.